It was tough but we decided not to find out the gender of the baby. We already have things for both and since this is most likely our last child it is also our last chance not to find out. Tucker and Bob both think it will be a boy and Penelope and I think it will be a girl. Scarlett seems to have no clue that we are going to have another baby.
The ultrasound was fun. Bob took it off work and we brought the girls along, Tucker was in school. The technician told us to look away several times to make sure we didn't see anything we didn't want to. Part of me really wanted to look but I didn't. The technician didn't write the gender down on any records or save a picture of it for the file. So the doctor will have no clue. And if we try to call and ask later they will have no idea. She did print one reveling picture off for us and put it into a sealed envelope just in case we change our mind. It is sitting on the bookshelf right now tempting me to open it.